Yesterday was a beautiful Fall day so we loaded the dogs in the back of the car and took them for a change of scenery to Terrapin Lake, about 5 miles from our house. Needless to say, they thoroughly enjoyed themselves and usually take a good nap when they get home. In fact, this is about all the strenuous exercise that Snoopy, who's around 13, can handle. When he gets home from the lake he goes straight back to his bed and we don't see him again until dinnertime, although there's no escaping his snoring. Loud.
I spent Saturday night cleaning and getting my spare bedroom ready for our winter guest, Margie, my semi-feral cat who first showed up on my doorstep about 4 years ago, little more than a kitten and very skinny. Having no experience with cats and nothing else to give her, I put a bowl of dry dog food out for her on the front porch. When I told my husband he said, "Now you'll never get rid of her - you know once you start feeding a cat they never leave." And I quickly responded, "Who said I wanted her to leave?" And that was that. Fast forward 4 years later; she's still semi-feral, but has come such a long way. After she'd been hanging around for about 6 months I trapped her (no way she'd let me pick her up!), had her spayed and got all her necessary shots. It's been a little easier each time she needs to go to the vet for routine shots and general exam, but I still have to trap her. Although she does let me pick her up and (briefly) cuddle with her, she'd still never willingly let me put her in a cat carrier. There's always trickery involved, which I feel bad about, but it's the only way I can get her to the vet.
Last winter was the first time that she actually spent the first of many winter nights in my house. Because I believe she was living in the old abandoned house across the street, once someone bought the property and tore it down to build a new one, I was so afraid she'd never survive a winter without a roof over her head. After that I was on a mission. I had to get her into my house and stay in my spare bedroom. Not an easy task when you're talking about a feral cat, either. Since I'd been feeding her every day for a long time she was regularly a fixture on my front porch when I got home from work. But with my new plan in mind, instead of the front porch, I moved her bowl to the windowsill of the spare bedroom. She was reluctant about the new location, of course, but once she figured that it was dinner there or not at all, she decided in favor of the windowsill. That went on for about a week, then I opened the window and put the bowl on the windowsill inside the house. Though she spent a lot of time pouting, pacing, and loudly meowing about this new dilemma, the hungry tummy won out and she moved again. Couple of weeks after that, I moved the dish to the floor of the bedroom, right underneath the windowsill. This whole process of getting her to trust me enough to come inside the house took at least a couple of months and by then it was getting really cold. Although at first she would just eat quickly, then bolt out of the window as soon as she was done, she eventually began to hang out for longer periods of time in the room, where I sat just tapping away on the computer or surfing the internet - and wearing a coat(!), because I'd keep the window open so she could leave anytime she felt stressed about this new situation. It probably wasn't until late December that I was able to close the window and she didn't freak out about it. Boy, the things you do for love!
Margie's former home |
I'm really glad she finally came to her senses because as it turns out, we had one of the worst winters in history, and a record amount of snow in Maryland. I don't believe Margie would have survived all the snow we got. She stayed in the spare bedroom from about January to March and went out very little during that time. I was surprised when I put a litter box in the room and she knew just what to do - there were never any accidents. So glad about that!
Now the room is cleaned up and ready whenever she decides it's time to hunker down for the winter again. She even came into the room on Saturday night while I was cleaning up and as you can see, made herself very comfortable surrounded by her old friend, Mr. Bunny, who I told her would be waiting for her when she's ready to come back.
Well, what do you know? Looks like Lilly's not the only one in the Halloween spirit. Even little Peggy wants to get in on the act! Why that little DEVIL!!